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I hesitated this time — what kind of sick, twisted hetero-vibe was I giving off this week? Straight men often make me feel this way.

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Layne Morgan, a writer, wrote an illuminating thread about this experience.

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One woman told me something that broke my heart: Unfortunately, I get it. The act of giving your number to a man feels learned, a result of social conditioning.

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